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I never told you about Thanksgiving, did I? Look at that, we passed right over the Thanksgiving holiday and I didn’t even let you in on the plans. Shame on me. Shame shame. Well let me open the shades and let you look through the window into my family. Of course, it all starts with a stroll down memory lane. Or at least as much of it as I can remember. I’ll just make the rest up.
By any other account, we would be a highly dysfunctional family. I grew up in a small town in
Shortly after my parents got separated and dad moved to his beach-house, my mother went down to
Apparently my sister had burned down our house. Well, I take that back. The fact is it wasn’t her fault at all. You see, it was November and very cold. Snowing, in fact. Laura was asleep under her electric blanket when some faulty wiring set it on fire. She woke up to find herself sleeping on a bed aflame. Seems like a crazy circus act, but trust me, the house was no circus and Laura didn’t put on much of an act. She woke up in a smoke filled room with the electric blanket perhaps a bit hotter than one might expect. After calling dad (and waking me from my sound sleep, thank you very much) she ran outside into the snow to wait for the fire trucks.
Nobody ever tells me a thing in my family, so I was pretty clueless on what was happening. I slept soundly through the night with not a care in the world. The next day I awoke to learn that our house was destroyed. That didn’t seem to help the stress levels for anybody in the family. Mom flew back home pretty darn lickety-split and Dad… well, dad wasn’t so happy. Let’s just keep it at that.
Laura, mom and I spent the next year crammed into a small rented apartment while our house got rebuilt and that didn’t make any of us really happy. There was a lot of anger and sadness floating around, not to mention the really crappy clothes I had to wear. You see, all my real clothes were ruined with smoke damage, so mom had to buy me new stuff. Not wanting to do a lot of shopping, or really any shopping at all for that matter, she grabbed the first thing she could find and bought it in assorted colors. Needless to say, I spent 8th grade wearing Adidas t-shirts everyday.
So what with the faulty wiring on the electric blanket, my sister nearly losing her life, our house nearly burning down and me, a poor pubescent child, suffering from all sorts of trauma, we had a good lawsuit on our hands. Somehow when there’s a lawsuit a-callin’, all the crazies swarm like a school of cockroaches on a stale piece of fried chicken. Between the insurance brokers, firemen, lawyers, contractors, adjusters and just plain wackos showing up at our door, I had a tough time keeping everybody straight. To make it worse, mom started dating around this time as well. It was really tough to keep track of whether the crazy comb-over misfit tramping through our place was here to assess the damage or to make the moves on mom. Sometimes it was both. And so they tried their hardest to be nice to the angry teen girl and the little kid in the Adidas clothing, but they didn’t have a chance in hell of me liking them. And my sister? Well, I don’t know if she really liked anybody at that point. I know she really liked my Mickey Mouse shirt though, cause she kept stealing that from me.
Mom’s string of dating turned into a bit of a blur for me. A year or two went by and I couldn’t remember a single guy I liked. Then, on one 4th of July, mom met Dan. They fell in love pretty quickly. Lo and behold, my sister and I actually liked the guy. Next thing I know, Laura and I are left home alone as mom and Dan gallivanted off to
Dan seemed to fit in nicely with the three of us. He was friendly, funny and caring. He was also divorced and had three teenage chillin’ of his own, so that probably played a part in his being a laid back type of guy and not a wacked out freakball like most of the other specimens that had been walking through the door. He didn't even have a comb-over!
Well, one thing led to another and mom and Dan decide to buy a house together and get married. Wham-bam? You betcha. One day my sister is sleeping on a bed of fire, the next day I’ve moved to the neighboring town, and suddenly am playing the part of Greg on the Brady Bunch.
Mom and Dan got married on November 23rd, right before Thanksgiving. That was 21 years ago. Over the past 21 years, the entire Brady Bunch has grown to be very close. There are 13 of us now, counting husbands, wives, nieces and nephews. The only thing dysfunctional about us, is that we’re functional. The extended family gets along better than any family should be allowed to. Well, there’s another thing dysfunctional about us and that is that we’re all avid – borderline addicted – athletes. Runners, bikers, triathletes, duathletes – you name it, we’ve got the lot of ‘em.
So every Thanksgiving, the entire clan gets together for a family celebration and, let me tell you, its non-stop good times. Laughs a-plenty mixed in with a heckuva lot of exercise. Every year we get together in
I brought Catherine down for Thanksgiving this year. As you can imagine, that’s a pretty big step to bring a girlfriend to such a treasured, borderline-holy experience. I’ve dated people for years and haven’t brought them down. And here I am, only 3 months into this relationship and…. Well, you get it. Cat, of course, fit right in. Arguably, better than I do. She’s wonderful like that. My youngest niece, Samantha, likes her better than me, which is sickeningly painful and overwhelmingly heartwarming at the same time.
About three years ago we added a new family event to the calendar: The St.Anthony’s Triathlon. It happens every April, the halfway point between Thanksgivings, as it turns out. This year four of us will be competing: step-brother Hugh, step-brother-in-law Craig, sister Laura (in her first triathlon ever) and, of course, moi.
I love my family.
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